Saw, I think yours is definitely a winemilleri. In addition to what Wills said about the preopercular marking, you can also identify them by their stress bands. Winemilleri generally have 4 solid bands on their flanks (young specimens have 5) and the eyespot is always on the second band from the head. Nice pictures btw (very jealous here!)
Thanks for that link, Wills. Unfortunately mine don't look like any of the variants on the site - they must be too young, so I'll have to wait until they're older like you suggested.