I think since she has nothing to do with the eggs or fry then she should pay child support. She goes off "to work" or wherever and he stays home tending to the young. YUP....def her job
that's a gold ancistrus (albino bristlenose pleco)
I have a juvenile one (i believe it to be female as it's grown over the last year but still no bristles) and a male adult. Hoping they'll breed someday