If the blasting sand is pure quartz, then it should be okay. If it is graded, then it may actually be quite good. The biggest problem with sand is the smaller grains drop between the bigger ones and it packs down. Even sized grains won't do that. That is why I use swimming pool filter sand - even grain size.
>>> Sand isn't very good for plants,
Plants grow better in sand and fine grained substrates. Gravel is a very un-natural medium for aquatic plants. I have collected plants on three continents and almost without exception, they grow in a very fine grained mud, often with a very high organic content, and I can atest to the fact that it usually stinks when you start digging around in it!