RIP Sam

Dragonscales

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My cat died today after being sick for a long time. He was my best friend (and I don't mean in just a "man's best friend" way, I shared a kinship with him stronger than I have with any person, except the missus) for almost 15 years and will be sorely missed. He was more family to me than most of my blood relatives and I cannot express how much he meant to me. We had been through thick and thin together and shared a bond stronger than most.

Rest in peace mate, you will always be in my heart, forever.
 
Really sorry for your loss.
 
Really sorry to hear about your cat. :rip:

I feel the same way about our dog. We have had her for almost 4 years and I can't imagine losing her. She is a part of our family That is one of the sad things about dogs and cats. They only live a short time compared to us. We will almost always outlive them and have to deal with losing them eventually.
 
Thanks for all the replies guys. I am going to bury him next to my mum's dog tomorrow. They used to get along when I lived there so it seems fitting to put them near each other now.

For now though, I am just going to drown my sorrows in a few cold ones, put on some tunes and honour his memory. He is part of my kin and will be treated as such, even in death and a wake seems the most fitting way to do this.
 
It's been a long time since I've had a chance to talk to you DS...

I'm so sorry about your kitty and I'm sure he will be missed immensely. It is always difficult to say good-bye to a beloved friend. I hope you will never forget him, but remember every moment with him - every laugh, all the love, and even all the tears...

Death is not extinguishing the light; it is putting out the lamp because dawn has come.

*big hug*
 
Well, I have an update for you all. The day after Sam died my gf's dad's dog died as well. Kelly was pretty close to him so we have both been kind of numb the last few days. Then as we got to my mum's house to bury Sam we noticed a dead cat in the gutter out the front. Some a$$hole had deliberately swerved at it and hit it. There were tire marks in the gravel on the side of the road leading right to the poor thing. They were obviously speeding to begin with and had sped up to hit him before he could escape onto the footpath, the poor little fella was only a step or two away from making it too when he would have been hit.

Whoever it was had done a good job of it too, most of it's head was missing, everything above the bottom jaw (which was a twisted mess) was completely gone and the rest of the body was also mangled beyond recognition. When I picked the poor bugger up it was like every bone in his body was shattered and there was nothing holding his form together. I am only glad that it would have been an instant death and he didn't suffer.

I thought it was mum's nextdoor neighbor's cat at first and asked them if they owned it but they said they didn't and he had been hanging around for a few weeks, most likely a stray. I took him and buried him with Sam and told them that if anyone comes asking about him to tell them I buried him. When he was alive Sam was a bit of an oddity for a male cat, he'd kick the heck out of anything that came in the yard that wasn't supposed to be there (including said neighbors cats when I lived there, pretty embarrassing lol) yet any cat we brought home that was younger than him he would absolutely dote upon. We had one cat who was taken away from his parents too soon (not by us) and didn't know how to clean himself so Sam used to do it for him. It was pretty funny watching him grab him and pin him down to wash him as if he was the cat's mum and the whole time Sparky would be carrying on because he didn't want a bath lol. Anyhow, long story short, I think Sam would have been happy that I buried that cat with him.
 
Aw that's awful... three pets dying so close together. :-(

This must really be taking it's toll on you and your girlfriend. You did a good thing burying that cat, by the way. Curse the bloody idiot who killed it and couldn't even be bothered to move it off the road. :grr:

:rip: Sam, doggy and the other cat.
 
That story about the cat being deliberately hit has bought tears to my eyes. As if itsnot bad enough that the cat got hit, but like that!!!! One consolation is it would have died quickly and hopefully not felt too much pain :(

It is fantastic that you are burying the little stray with your cat...Kudos to you for doing such a wonderful thing :)
 

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