It sounds like you're looking for a reptile that's easy to care for, social, and enjoys human interaction, but you're not sure what to get. I've had a similar experience myself. I remember reading an article about
iguana bite, which piqued my interest in getting one. However, I understand that iguanas may not be the right fit for everyone. Based on your preferences, I think mourning geckos could be a good option. They're social, easy to care for, and can live in a zen habitat. They also enjoy human interaction but are okay without it, which aligns with what you're looking for. Additionally, they're climbers, so they'll be able to use the vertical space in their habitat.