So, it has been few months and I dont think the tank is doing well
First of I lost all the water lettuce plants, cause as summer stopped, the sunlight stopped hitting the tank in the morning and the light I have on is not sufficient for the floaters. The past few weeks I have been fighting with the hornwort melting, I had to take it all out, returned only the good looking firm ones, they are still melting.
I've had hornwort do that too, it's really annoying when it decides it's unhappy and drops all it's needles, makes such a mess to clean up! If you were losing the hornwort and the water lettuce (mine always came and went too).
I planted egeria and crypts over the weekend, but that will take time to pick up.
True, shove some root tabs under the crypts, they do much better when given the chance to feed heavily through the roots.
I for sure lost at least 2 pygmy corydoras, I found their bodies, but now when I do a headcount, I only ever see six. is it possible I lost six?!
Possible, sure. But also not always easy to get a headcount. Even when my group school around together, there are always at least a few off to another side just chilling or grazing, while the majority are schooling around.
I purchased least rasbora a month or two after the pygmies, I purchased 12 in a petco sort of store as they are not so available, they were thin so I expected some losses but only lost 2 and I have beautiful colored group that is not shy and are very active. That was a pleasant surprise
What about the tank, should i buy more pygmies, wait a bit, abandon the possibility of breeding and maybe get a sparkling gourami or a female betta or smth,... I am lost now as I expected they will do well and they are not
I wouldn't add a female betta nor sparkling gourami to the same tank as pygmies and least rasbora. If you want to start over and restock, entirely up to you! Can't really answer that for you, I'm afraid, that's gotta be a personal decision!
If you have six pygmies, and want to try breeding them, there's already a good chance that you have enough males/females, and I can see at least one female and one male in the pics - then there are plenty of ways to try to induce spawning, and feeding some high quality foods, like live and frozen, and doing a few large water changes where the water is a few degrees cooler than the tank temp is usually enough to induce spawning behaviour. Especially if you do a couple of those water changes early in the day when the sun is beginning to hit the tank.
Oh, and pygmies like a good amount of flow, not sure about the rasbora. So could try increasing the flow.
Crypts would be good plants to add for attempting to breed them, since they tend to stick eggs all over the place on plant leaves (I rarely see my pgymies eggs, unlike the bronzes that plaster the tank glass with them, so with lots of leaves, more chance at least some eggs won't be eaten by parents. Or you could deliberately set up a spawning tank or use a spawning mop. I'd definitely try to add a bit more ground cover, leaf litter (I see you do have some)
But if you're not feeling it, or not wanting to try for that, then there's no reason to try to force it.