How many males and females do you have? You should have 2-3 females per male to take the stress off the females. Male Livebearers are mating machines and will try to mate 24/7. If you have a few females per male, the males try to mate with all of them, therefore taking the stress off a few females while they try to mate with another. If you do have that ratio, and they are still both bothering her, they may be trying to make her abort so they can have a nice snack. Any way you can seperate them?
Breeder nets/traps are iffy things. If you put the fish in too soon, you then have to keep them in there longer, which means more stress on the female. I wouldn't recommend keeping her in there more then 2-3 days max. And you can only keep the fry in there for a couple weeks max, otherwise you risk stunting. Since you don't know what she acts/looks like before she gives birth, it might be worth it to just let her give birth in the tank this time, and provide some cover for the fry. This can be plants, wood, caves, whatever. Floating plants work especially well though. You may lose a few fry, but some should still survive, provided you don't have extremely aggressive fish. What other fish are with her?
If you are serious about raising fry, I'd look into a breeder tank. This way you don't put stress on the female from putting her in the breeder net/trap, and you can raise the fry well without risking stunting them. It's win-win. There's a pinned topic on this
here.
Also, I noticed earlier in the post you asked how long the gestation period is. It's about 4 weeks, give or take a few days, depending on the fish. You also asked signs that she's close. They can include:
- Increased/Decreased Appetite.
- Hoovering in one place.
- Hiding.
- Being more aggressive to other fish.
- Chasing fish away from her hiding spot.
- Sometimes laying on the bottom of the tank.
Keep in mind some fish may show all these signs, some may show none. Most likely, she'll show a few. You'll get to know what to expect from her right before she gives birth after you've had her a while and she's given birth a few times.
Also, have you checked out the pinned topics and FAQs? You may find them helpful. Good luck!