Ok, any and all advice needed here.
First off, I'm not a total novice and have had a decent bit of experience with fish. That's just my way of saying I feel like a retard and oh god oh jeeze. Second off, I have exactly no luck at all and found that no amount of preparation can fend off accidents.
Long story less long than it could be:
I have a successful tank I gave to my parents two cities away, 50 gallons and home to lots of easy care plants, a large pleco, a handful of livebearers and a couple barbs so the population is stable.
I decided I wanted a small easy to maintain tank myself and planted and prepared a small 20 gallon tank in preperation for 3 albino cory's, a female black molly, a couple platties, a tiny frog, and some ghost shrimp.
The substrate was going to come entirely from the big tank so i was like WEE ok let's get rolling. My parents filled a large bag with thier gravel and i gave them some new gravel. Using this I set up the tank with my biowheel and plants and so forth and let it circulate for 12 hours thinking it would build up enough bacteria in the filter for a good start (I even stirred the gravel at the 6 hour mark!). See, I also had two bags of water from the tank but they leaked but i was like hey no prob the two inches of gravel should be enough. It didn't seem as dirty as I expected, but I did tell them to rinse it a little in the tank water.
So the next day IN GO ALL MY NEW FISH WEE and at first they're cool and like wow this is cool I'm a fish doing fish things LOOK AT ME HIDE BECAUSE I'M A FISH. So I was like B) you guys are fish.
About ten hours later the fish are going crazy and I'm like well I'll be that's odd WHAT IF I TAKE A READING and let me tell you that was a great idea I'm glad I did it. It read like It was a new tank someone dumped a bunch of fish in. That wasn't at all what I expected so I called my parents and asked them about the gravel.
They boiled it so it wouldn't be dirty.
I asked them again just to be sure. Yep. They boiled it.
So there's no way I can see them anytime soon, there's no one nearby with a successful tank AND I DON'T WANT MY FISH TO DIE OR HAVE ANYWHERE TO PUT THEM.
I thought it was going to be so simple
Any and all tips, chemicals, thingies, and rumors are welcome. I don't want them all to die
Ps: already doing the 15% daily change. I even went so far as to buy those bacteria in a bottle which I really don't believe in but hey anything for hope right.
First off, I'm not a total novice and have had a decent bit of experience with fish. That's just my way of saying I feel like a retard and oh god oh jeeze. Second off, I have exactly no luck at all and found that no amount of preparation can fend off accidents.
Long story less long than it could be:
I have a successful tank I gave to my parents two cities away, 50 gallons and home to lots of easy care plants, a large pleco, a handful of livebearers and a couple barbs so the population is stable.
I decided I wanted a small easy to maintain tank myself and planted and prepared a small 20 gallon tank in preperation for 3 albino cory's, a female black molly, a couple platties, a tiny frog, and some ghost shrimp.
The substrate was going to come entirely from the big tank so i was like WEE ok let's get rolling. My parents filled a large bag with thier gravel and i gave them some new gravel. Using this I set up the tank with my biowheel and plants and so forth and let it circulate for 12 hours thinking it would build up enough bacteria in the filter for a good start (I even stirred the gravel at the 6 hour mark!). See, I also had two bags of water from the tank but they leaked but i was like hey no prob the two inches of gravel should be enough. It didn't seem as dirty as I expected, but I did tell them to rinse it a little in the tank water.
So the next day IN GO ALL MY NEW FISH WEE and at first they're cool and like wow this is cool I'm a fish doing fish things LOOK AT ME HIDE BECAUSE I'M A FISH. So I was like B) you guys are fish.
About ten hours later the fish are going crazy and I'm like well I'll be that's odd WHAT IF I TAKE A READING and let me tell you that was a great idea I'm glad I did it. It read like It was a new tank someone dumped a bunch of fish in. That wasn't at all what I expected so I called my parents and asked them about the gravel.
They boiled it so it wouldn't be dirty.

So there's no way I can see them anytime soon, there's no one nearby with a successful tank AND I DON'T WANT MY FISH TO DIE OR HAVE ANYWHERE TO PUT THEM.
I thought it was going to be so simple

Any and all tips, chemicals, thingies, and rumors are welcome. I don't want them all to die

Ps: already doing the 15% daily change. I even went so far as to buy those bacteria in a bottle which I really don't believe in but hey anything for hope right.