Interesting. I do not know if you've run across a true NH4 ammonium tester or if its the typical tester that can measure both NH3 (ammonia) and NH4 and the person has just read only part of the labeling or something. (Whoops, on re-read, it sounds like the store guy WAS saying he had an NH3 test, which would indeed be just what you want!)
Ammonium (NH4) is ammonia (NH3) with an extra proton. Since all protons (a proton is two up-quarks and a down-quark I believe) carry a single positive charge, ammonium is a cation (a positive ion.) When ammonia is in water a little bit of it will go in to the ammonium state, depending on the pH (more acid means more ammonia, more basic means a little more ammonium.) Bacteria (Nitrosomonas spp.) will "eat" (they are single-cell so they actually "process", not eat, lol) either ammonia or ammonium equally well. Ammonium is not harmful to fish - it is what the conditions will convert ammonia in to for about 24 hours max after they are dosed, assuming that's one of the conditioner's "features."
Most testers just show you the combined NH3 and NH4 total concentration. This is fine for all but a few situations where people have very high NH3 in their tap water but are in a fish-in cycle and need to do water changes and are trying to handle the difficulty by repeatedly dosing conditioner to turn it in to NH4 (this technique really just doesn't work in the long run is my recollection.)
Find out which liquid NH3 tester he's offering, it should be fine probably.
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