There is no "normal" coloring for any betta. You will learn about so many different colors and color combinations on here that it'll make your head spin!
I believe the color you have is called cambodian - flesh colored body with blue fins. Since your bettas fins aren't a solid color, and there are "clear" areas, those areas are referred to as celophane colored since they are translucent. There are some bettas out there that have such clear fins that it looks like they don't have fins at all!
I think your betta is male. At first glance he does look feminine, but I still says it's male.