nanocubeking
Fishaholic
when i went to sleep last night the anenome looked good...but this morning when i got up it didnt look good heres the link
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Take it back to the shop, your tank is not suitable for it.
Whoa, somethin's majorly wrong in your system. Not only is your anemone shrunken and has a gaping mouth (signs of impending doom), but I also see a Euphyllia genus coral of some sort in the background there with freshy burned/killed heads and another one that's shrunken and not looking too long for this world. My first guess would be chemistry... Have both you AND your LFS tested your water for temp, salinity/sg, pH, ammonia, nitrite, nitrate, and if possible calc/alk/mg?
Yes, all corals have unique lighting and flowrate requirements, however they usually only shrink up the way yours was if there is a significant chemistry problem. I'd really suggest getting the parameters I suggested tested out to make sure you don't have a chemical problem. Ignorance of chemistry can/will lead to coral deaths, so start learning up
As for the nem, are its tentacles still sticky to the touch? and has it closed its mouth back up?
can we know more about your tank? Inhabitants, light, water chemistry (regardless of whether or not you have an anemone or anything dying, you should still test) size, do you skim, do you have sump, do you have refugium, how did you acclimate your corals, how did you acclimate your anemone, how old is your tank?