If a spider sets up home somewhere out of the way in the house, I'll name it and try to leave it be, sometimes throw a bug in the web! Had a nice orb weaver in the top of the kitchen window for a few months, and I was genuinely sad when I found her dead
The house spiders we get here have their breeding season around August - September, and I'm always aware of that and a bit wary! Spray peppermint around doorways and windowsills to try to keep them out, but most years, one will surprise and freak me out, and I have to either give it the shoe, or trap it and get my fella to remove it! In the breeding season the males travel around the house at night, looking for females, and that's why they're often found trapped in the bathtub, or when they come running out from under furniture at you.
I vividly remember one year I was lying in bed at 1-2am, reading a book while lying on my side, and one
fell from the picture frame above me and landed on my book, right in front of my face. I leaped up screaming, not really grasping what happened, but I knew it was a big spider right in front of my face, and I saw it vanish over my pillow and go down the back of my bed.
Grumpy confused boyfriend at the time, woken by my screaming, and doesn't like spiders much himself, tried to tell me to leave it, but no way could I go to sleep there, knowing the spider could climb back up at any minute! So he had to pull the bed out and find and release it before I'd agree to go back in the room, lol.