As far as I am aware, they are only sexable when in season.
However, I would generally expect females to be fuller around the mid-section when they are egging up, so when the time comes, it should be pretty easy to tell.
as far as i know common plecs cant be spawned in an aquarium as they burrow in to mud banks might of imagined this info however so wait for someone else on the forum to help you
scot