it is impossible to tell the sex of the GSP I'm afraid.. at least while it's alive as they are sexed internally.. people have been researching this currently to try and determin a behavioural distance but results are still quite a way off in the future... what I can tell you though is that if you are lucky enough to get males and females obviously the female will lay the eggs but the male always moves them to a cave or hole in the substrate and tends them and guards them.. this is the only info available on the subject.. sorry.