Had a successfully spawn but afterward the male lost interest and the female who had done all the work took over he chased her away but just let the eggs fall and she sneaked in and put them back in the nest she is now guarding them and tending the nest as he should have done, anyone else let this happen or should i take her out as well she is even blowing a nest to keep it together and picking up falling eggs and putting them back doing a good job but i have never had this before and will she be OK ........... i know my wife was with my two..... 
its rare that i ever hear of the female doing anything other than getting under the cup and dropping eggs, but i know another guy here had a pair of fish that spawned and rather than nipping and chaseing they accually worked together building the nest and careing for the eggs. y cant all spawns be that way 
i guess when the male desides hes not doing it, the female has to take charge of the situation 
