Alia here, back for more crab talk. I guess I've had my little crab for a week and a half, now. Those first few days, I thought she was a goner for sure. I started her in my ten gallon, which she promptly climbed to the open spot in the back of, then moved her to my 28 gallon for safety's sake. She took up residence under a "log" and then I read (on the site I mentioned) that they need brackish water for molting and shell regeneration (read the site for details, it's pretty well written).
So, as soon as I could coax her into a paper cup (nets are no good for crabs
) I moved her to her own little two gallon with a glass lid (no filtration or heat). I had added a little aquarium salt to the water, and she molted within a day. I was putting different kinds of food in there and the water got pretty cruddy, so I pulled the log out one night (she was hiding inside) and put in "fresh" water that I had added "instant ocean" to (for the salt, and the calcium, etc. to harden her shell).
Still, it was touch and go. I understand they are reclusive after they've molted because they are vulnerable. I was worried because I had never seen her eat anything at all. Finally, the other night she was both out of the log and eating, so I felt a little better. She is still pretty shy, but I've started thinking about setting up a terrarium tank for her, and getting a male. I think she'd be happier. I've seen the tanks at one of the pet stores, and they look neat. I wish I'd seen it that way before I bought her, but live and learn, right?
Hope you have better luck with your crabs in the future, smudge!