I’ve had the yo-yo loaches probably just over a month now. Unfortunately (again) I was told they would be fine as a pair!! (starting to really hate pets at home!!) I do have one that does push the other about a little and I feel horrible about it! They are quite shy though I find! They only really come out of hiding at dinner time. I initially got them becuase I was having a real problem with alge in my tank and I liked the colour of them. Don’t know if it would be best to rehome my bigger or smaller one now aswell
. I’m currently 35 weeks pregnant and I’ve got very attached to all my fish witch isn’t great when I just want the best for them when I’m the one who’s been mis informed and put them in a bad situation to begin with! The emotions are real!
I'm sorry, you obviously love your fish and you're doing the best you can for them! Sadly you've had to learn the hard way, as many hobbyists do, that the people at the store often know nothing about fish and will give terrible advice in order to sell you stuff. Usually, privately owned local fish stores are better than the large chains stores, but not always. The rule of thumb is to always do your own research, and never trust the advice from a store unless it's a small privately owned store that have already proven themselves trustworthy, you know? You're not the first that has been mis-sold a tank, fish, medications etc, and sadly, you won't be the last! Not your fault. It makes sense to ask the store employees for advice, they should know! But sadly sales are the bottom line, not long term success for your tank and fish.
Congratulations on your pregnancy! I'm sorry that this has come at a rough time. Once your stocking is settled and the tank calms down, hopefully you can enjoy a peaceful, calm tank to relax in front of while soothing your little one
Hi and
Thankyou !
She’s seems to be on and off with it, sometimes she’s all clamped up and other times she’s fully fanned out! She came out for a few mins this evening and I treated her to some frozen blood worm and although she ate a few her appetite isn’t what it was
I managed to grab a few better photos of her when she came out but again She’s not interested. It’s almost like she’s sad and sulking!
I’ve now rehomed my male betta and one of my yo-yo loaches! I plan to get more peaceful community fish such as harleyquins and mollys! But going to wait a little while as to not stress her out!
Yikes, I didn't intend for you to rehome one but not the other... singletons are often stressed too I'm afraid, and the two together, despite some bullying/dominating, might have been preferable to one alone. Has the one you rehomed gone to join a larger group? Might they be willing to take the other as well? I'm sorry, I know that you're attached. Again, just trying to think of the long term welfare of your fish. There are other botia loaches that don't get so large that could work well in your size tank too. Rosey loaches or perhaps dwarf chain loaches (dwarf chain might require a slightly bigger tank, I'd have to research), or you might consider corydoras for a bottom dweller that would fit perfectly in your size tank, and be out and about in the open much more than loaches are. They're adorable, come in a variety of colours, help to clean up food that the upper/mid water feeders miss (although still need to be fed their own food of course), and will be out in the open and more visible than shyer loaches are.
Alternatively, you could get 4 more yoyo loaches while they're still roughly the same size/age as your current one, and mentally commit to upgrade the tank to a much larger size as soon as possible, so that you get one large enough for a group of adult size yoyos. You said you'd had yours for a little over a month, so any you get from a store now will also be juveniles of close to the same age, and more likely to get along better than if you try to mix new individuals much later down the line when yours is the eldest.
Your water is too soft for mollies but is probably ok for guppies, platies and swordtails, although they would prefer the GH to be around 200ppm, but 180ppm is close enough as long as the pH stays at 7.0 or slightly above.
Platies would be a better companion for Harlequin rasboras.
I would have kept the male Betta and the loaches, and I would have got another 4 or 5 loaches. A group of Botia lohachata should be fine in a tank that is 3 feet long or bigger.
@Colin_T the tank is 135 L though, 35 US gallons. Not big enough for a group of yoyo loaches.
I'm sorry that my advice made you rush to rehome one of the yoyos! That wasn't my intent. I meant for you to know you'd need rehome or return both, or that you'd need to upgrade tank and group size for them to thrive. It's hard to communicate everything you need to need to know just via comments on here (especially when people tell me my comments are too long to bother reading already).
I am glad to see though how committed you are to your fish, it's clear how much you love them! And happy to see your betta is feeling better and is more active now! That's a great sign.