Ok, this may be a stupid question, but I want to be sure. I have some baby cichlids that are about an inch long. I can't be sure how old they are, but I know they are new. Anyway, the LPS said to only feed them a small amount every other day. Is that correct? The books I have read say several small meals so I have been feeding in the morning and the evening. How do I know how much to give them? Also, I have heard that feeding them live things will make them MORE aggressive. Is that true? I don't want them aggressive, but a nice community of all Malawis. Is it possible? They have them together at the LPS.