Hi all, just wanted some advice. I posted before about my sister in laws tank. Basically she has thrown in a bit of anything she liked the look of and the poor betta in there looks so ill, he is washed out looking, scraggy fins and looks so sad. She has gone and moved out and left the care to her dad which is worse, i feel so helpless my partner says i cant help all fish, and it has nothing to do with me But I am finding it really hard to go there and see the sorry state that there in My father inlaw is the type of man who wont accept any acvice. Its so heart breaking it really is. What do you all reckon I should do? They are well overstocked have tons in there! I know i should just tell him but he such an arrogant a**e HELP!
Get your partner to take the father in law out somewhere and go in and swipe it, if this is how they are about fish he most probably won't even know its missing
I said that 2 my partner that I will just take it he said u cant help it its not yours to help, and where would i house it i have a betta . I mean that really isnt a issue cos i will go and get somethin just so he has some sort of life! It is soooo frustrating. I hate people like that just see a pretty fish and put it in not caring weather it can b housed with the others
Well tell your partner that if we all turned the other cheek like him when something like this happens imagine what type of world we would live in. My boyfriend is forever telling me to keep my nose out if anything happens, but i can't help it, we need to stick up for anything that can't stick up for it self
That my moan done for the thanks
cheers red devil, i gonna try and talk to the father in law and just tell him how it is that it is gonna die if he doesnt hand it over then maybe he will surrender it
Hi all, just wanted some advice. I posted before about my sister in laws tank. Basically she has thrown in a bit of anything she liked the look of and the poor betta in there looks so ill, he is washed out looking, scraggy fins and looks so sad. She has gone and moved out and left the care to her dad which is worse, i feel so helpless my partner says i cant help all fish, and it has nothing to do with me 
My father inlaw is the type of man who wont accept any acvice. Its so heart breaking it really is. What do you all reckon I should do? 
They are well overstocked have tons in there! I know i should just tell him but he such an arrogant a**e HELP!
like him when something like this happens imagine what type of world we would live in. My boyfriend is forever telling me to keep my nose out if anything happens, but i can't help it, we need to stick up for anything that can't stick up for it self 
that it is gonna die if he doesnt hand it over then maybe he will surrender it 
