John, with three holidays a year you should get in enough snorkelling and scuba diving to not need a tank! If I were you I would measure out each daily dose in separate containers and label them. If your son can find a minute from his hectic girlie schedule, he should be able to spend a few seconds each day adding the dose. You might have to forego the water change though. Maybe smaller doses relative to how long you are away will help compensate for the K, N and P build up.
My first ever tank was an EI and I can totally recommend it. For me, the two major mistakes that I see being made are people not planting sufficient fast growing stems from day one and not getting their CO2 stable at 30ppm from day one (which means pressurised CO2 to my mind). Using dry ferts is considerably cheaper than buying off the shelf, and takes less than a minute of my day to dose.
I can wholly recommend this system, even for the first timer.
Dave.