Hi! I know it's hard without a picture but maybe just a general idea would sure help. My mom has this catfish that is aggressive, it ate all her neons. It's very pretty, it actually looks kind of like a clown loach(if my memory is right), it has very vivid big bands of black and white. I want to trade fish with her and give her all my smaller fish but she wants to give me this fish because it will eat them again if left in her tank. Any idea at all would be great and I could look it up, I'm clueless when it comes to catfish. Now, the catfish was originally from my brother who is really into cichlids so are there catfish in the cichlid family? Thanks!! Leah