Dave,
Are you confused about the cycling process options? Did you try to read the cycling threads posted in the beginner's section? I found them to be very helpful in determining which way to cycle the tank.
http
/www.fishforums.net/index.php?/topic/277264-beginners-resource-center/
I selected the 'fishless cycle' add and wait method, which basically consists of:
1. Buy a decent water testing kit - I went with the API Master Kit
2. Test your tap water levels of ammonia, nitrite, nitrate, and pH (so you know your baseline)
3. Get the tank up and running with a filter
4. Acquire pure ammonia, which can be tricky to find in the stores
5. Optimal temperature would be 84 F for cycling, with a pH in the range of 8.0 (you can use baking soda to raise the pH)
6. Add enough ammonia to raise the ppm test result about about 4 ppm
Then you patiently wait for the ammonia level to drop, which can take one week or many weeks, depending on your water properties. You have to wait for the natural 'ammonia loving' bacteria to eat your ammonia and grow more bacteria. After that there is a second, longer phase of waiting for the bacteria to grow that like to eat 'nitrites'.
Those threads give better detail than I did, though.
Then you can start a "cycle log" thread with your name in it, and post your testing results. There are very helpful users on this forum that will check your log and make suggestions to help you out. My log thread is in my signature if you want an example.