Really, it would be best to 'condition' the female separately from the male. 'Conditioning' just means feeding her with a high quality, high protein food (live or frozen is best) until she's nice and plump. Don't give huge amounts of food; you want her to make eggs, not just get fat!
Then you add the male; usually last thing at night; a lot of fish will spawn when the morning light hits the tank, so if you can set it up so that happens, you might have more success.
They eggs are really tiny, only about 1mm, so you might not even see them. You'll need a lot of fine leaved plants, or marbles/mesh, as tlm mentions, or the parents will eat them all.