African Greys dont always make great family pets as they are very much 'one person birds'. They will bond with one person in the family and although sometimes they will tolerate other people handling them, some birds will get very territorial of "their" person and can become agressive towards other people.
Im assuming he's handreared which is good, but make sure you get everyone you can to handle him to ensure that he will tolerate as many people as possible - That is very important!!
African Greys can live 50+ years.
Is he coming with a cage? If so make sure its plenty big enough, he should be able to stretch his wings out fully without touching anything. Also expect to spend a small fortune every month on toys as they dont last long!! I find baby toys are great for Greys, wooden bricks, plastic hoops things, anything like that. You can also make your own to save money!!
He will need a good quality parrot seed mix as well as fresh fruit and veg daily. Cage needs to be cleaned daily and water must be replaced whenever it gets dirty. You will also need to get him a calcium supplement to put on his food or in his water, if they dont get enough calcium they can start to pluck and become very ill.
Thanks for the reply, she is a family orientated bird at the moment, so i'm hoping to continue this, although my partner has just phoned me to tell me she hates him.
She is hand reared and the previous owner has told us how tame she is. She is coming with a large cage - it would fit in the back of our 4 x 4!
Many thanks for your tips, i will make sure i have a good supply of toys lol
You'll need to have him out most of the day. Mine used to be out, with me for about 10 hours every day. If you keep the bird occupied it shouldn't be loud (african greys dont have the piercing shriek! Thats cockatoos). If he talks, expect him to do it all day everyday. To make him stay quiet, just talk quietly around him, thats the way i keep my birds quiet!!lol! If they dont hear lots of noise around them they tend to talk musch quieter, my Cape Parrot barely talks above a whisper unless he wants food
And thats all i can think of for the moment. Good idea to get him vet checked! I would advise having his wings clipped too if they're not already done. I dont know if this is your first bird, but if it is expect to put a lot of work in, and to get bitten, hard plenty of times!! Even the tamest bird can bite and you just have to put up with it.
But you seem to have started well so good luck with him