my rams

tell someone please tell me which one is which.. i cant tell they look the same

If I had to guess, I'd say the one on top is female and the one on bottom is the male. I couldn't find much online about sexing bolivians, other than the shape of the face - males are more rounded while females are more slanted/pointed. I notice that same thing in my blue rams, but it might just be that one's younger than the other.

Definitely not an expert here, just a guess and a bump back up