Any idea how long phosphate absorber would lower Ph
Phosphate absorber reduces phosphate levels. It normally has no affect on PH.
So odd, I just siphoned out 5 gallons and topped off with 5 gallons of high ph (8.8) ro/di water, waited 30 minutes, and my pH dropped to 5.5, don't think I'm gonna get away with not adding the gh booster
Normally I drain 50% of my tank water and dthen put in my RO water and after the tank is full I add the fertilizer and GH booster. Your plants and fish need calcium and magnesium from the GH booster. Also RO/DI water without any minerals init should have a PH of less than 7. With no minerals in it there is nothing in it to push the PH up and CO2 in the air will make it slightly acidic. There might be something wrong with your RO system or if you are buying it you are not getting what you paid for.
Although I was just reading about exhausting the kh buffering abilities of the soil with constant addition of kh+ to achieve a more neutral Ph,
I had to look around your other posts to find out what substrate you have, fluval stratum. my understanding is hat this substrate releases a week organic acid that lowers the PH to about 6.5. If you add KH to your tank you will eventually deplete the acid in the substrate. However in your case not only is your substrate reducing the PH, your GH booster is also reducing PH. again sea shell or coral in the filter were water flow is highest will solve your issue. It will note push the PH above 7 and it will neutralize the acids that may be harming your fish.
But one issue I have with stratum and other similar substrates is that they also loss nutrients over time. And eventually it will run out of nutrients. And when that happens you have 2 choices replace he substrate, or use a fertilizer. A lot of work if you decide to replace the substrate. And in all likelihood your fertilizer won't work.
Unfortunately most fertilizers depend on your water or your substrate to supply some of the nutrients plants need. Nilocg Thrive S does not have copper in it to make it "shrimp safe". Unfortunately plants and all animals (including shrimp) need copper. Also you don't need to add iron to your aquarium Thrive S has more than enough iron DTPA. which is the best choice for a water PH 7.5 or less.
Right now your substrate is supplying copper. but when that runs out your plants will stop growing. Most of the copper in aquariums comes from the copper pipes tap water flows through . RO has no copper in it. You can try different fertizlers butI tried that but couldn't find one that worked for me. Or you could buy some copper sulfate and mix 161 milligrams with 100 ml distilled water and add 1 ml of that to your aquarium after each water change. This would maintain 3 parts per billion of copper in your tank. my shrimp showed no effects at 10 to 20 parts per billion of copper. I went further than this and went ahead and made my own fertilizer with N, K, Ca, Mg, P, S, Cl, Fe, Mn, B, Zn, Cu, Mo, and Ni.