I managed to get most of the plants I have tried to grow well in standard aquarium gravel, except anubias and java fern, which I've always attached to wood. If you're not using CO2 or fertilizers, you can get most commonly available crypts (cryptocorynes) to root well. You'll get better growth, however, if you can manage to stick your hand into the gravel every three months to add a root tab. Your crypts will thank you for it. I have even managed to grow some of the more fancy stem plants to take root in standard gravel, but I also had very good lighting and added CO2 and fertilizers. My 15g in the member's tank section of the Planted forum is done with regular gravel that isn't much different from yours.
I do agree that smaller gravel is much better. As soon as I switched to a 1-3mm grain gravel, I can now grow most lawncovers as well with my lighting and ferts, making me very happy.